Have you ever looked at your pantry or wardrobe and thought, ‘Do I really need all this stuff?’
It’s something many of us feel, especially when we have more than necessary.
While being able to buy things is a privilege, overbuying can harm our planet and show the unfairness between those who have a lot and those who have little.
It’s one thing to know you shouldn’t shop so much, but stopping can be hard.
If you’re ready to live more eco-friendly and control your shopping habits, here are five actionable tips to help you make better choices. Let’s get started!
Knowing Things Won’t Make You Happy
We often shop for things we want and need, but understanding the difference can help us buy less.
Needs are the basics you must have to live, like food and water.
A want is something you’d like but can live without, such as an extra pair of sunglasses or a fourth handbag when you already have three.
Buying things we want can feel exciting at first. You look forward to using them, but that happiness fades quickly. Instead of lasting joy, we often end up wanting more.
We might also start spending money to impress others, even if it means overstretching our credit cards and going into debt. This habit can lead to stress and financial trouble.
Instead, focus on what truly matters and brings you joy without financial strain. Remember, true happiness isn’t in things—it’s in the connections and moments we create.
Declutter with The KonMari Method
Once you recognise that buying isn’t the path to happiness, the next step is to address what you already own.
Marie Kondo, a renowned organizing consultant, offers valuable insights through her book, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up.
Her method has transformed countless lives, including my own.
Who is Marie Kondo?
Marie Kondo is a Japanese organizing expert who gained international fame for her unique approach to tidying. Her philosophy centres on surrounding yourself with items that ‘spark joy’.
What is her method about?
The KonMari Method focuses on decluttering by category, not location.
You start with less sentimental items, such as clothes, and then move through books, papers, miscellaneous items, and finally, sentimental items.
The key is to keep only what truly brings you joy.
How you can apply the method
- Visualize your ideal lifestyle: Imagine how you want your space to feel. You can get inspiration from home magazines or declutter influencers on Instagram and Pinterest.
- Declutter by category: Tackle one category at a time, following the order.
- Ask if it sparks joy: Hold each item and see if it brings you happiness. If not, thank it and let it go.
- Organize thoughtfully: Arrange your belongings so they’re easy to see and access.
What tools do you need for decluttering?
From personal experience, here are some tips and tools to make your decluttering process smoother:
- Set aside plenty of time: Decluttering can be time-consuming. Allow yourself ample time, spreading the process over 4 to 6 weeks, to tackle each category without rushing.
- Get support: If you find the process overwhelming, involve family or friends. Having someone to support you can make the task less daunting and keep you motivated.
- Share your goals: Let others know about your decluttering goals. This will help you stay accountable and focused on your objective.
- Use labels: After decluttering, use labels to organise your items. This helps you maintain order and find things easily, preventing clutter from piling up again.
- Consider hiring professionals: If you’re struggling despite your best efforts, you might want to hire a decluttering expert. These services have become more popular thanks to Marie Kondo’s influence and can provide valuable guidance.
Remember, decluttering is a journey towards a more organised and peaceful life. Be patient with yourself and stay committed to the process.
Focus on Quality Over Quantity
Statistics show that people often accumulate unnecessary items in their kitchen cupboards and wardrobes. I’ve definitely been guilty of this myself.
These days, when I need to buy something new, like a blender, I prioritize quality over price. I also consider whether the item serves multiple purposes.
For example, my blender functions as a food processor and a plant milk maker, and it comes with an 8-year warranty.
An item like this not only saves space in my kitchen but also proves to be more cost-effective in the long run.
Additionally, the extended warranty means I won’t need to replace it within a couple of years, saving me both money and hassle.
This principle applies to clothing and accessories as well. While fast fashion might be tempting due to its low prices, it’s not a sustainable choice.
Fast fashion often means lower quality and shorter lifespans for items, leading to more frequent replacements and increased waste, such as more items ending up in landfills, contributing to greenhouse gas emissions and environmental harm.
Invest in well-made, timeless pieces that will last longer and serve you better. While quality items may cost more initially, they offer greater value over time and support a sustainable lifestyle.
Choosing quality over quantity reduces clutter, saves money in the long run, and promotes an eco-friendly way of living.
If you always choose quality, consider a ‘one in, one out’ approach: donate an item from your wardrobe to charity or give it to friends before buying something new.
Go for Borrowing, Sharing, or Secondhand Before Spending
Before rushing to buy something new, consider borrowing, sharing, or purchasing secondhand.
These options not only save money but also reduce waste and support a more sustainable lifestyle.
Borrowing
Reading is one of my hobbies, but I rarely buy books.
Instead, I borrow them from local libraries or listen to audiobooks on platforms like BorrowBox or Audible. I’m often surprised by how quickly I can access newly published books through my library.
Once I’ve finished reading or listening, I seldom revisit them, so borrowing is perfect for my needs.
Start by borrowing items you only need temporarily.
Whether it’s a book for a weekend/holiday read or a tool for a home project, borrowing from libraries, friends, or family can meet your needs without adding clutter to your home.
Sharing
Participate in community-sharing initiatives. Many neighbourhoods have tool libraries, book swaps, or clothing exchanges.
These resources allow you to access what you need while fostering a sense of community and reducing demand for new products.
Secondhand Shopping
When buying is necessary, consider secondhand options first. Charity shops and online marketplaces offer a wide range of quality items at lower prices.
For example, I recently bought a secondhand Yamaha keyboard from a local Facebook marketplace because I wanted to learn piano. I was pleased with both the price and the quality.
Although I could afford a new one, using a secondhand keyboard extends its life, especially since the original owner mentioned it was just gathering dust in his loft.
Choosing secondhand helps extend the life of products and keeps them out of landfills.
By embracing borrowing, sharing, and secondhand shopping, you contribute to a circular economy where resources are reused and repurposed. This approach not only benefits the planet but also enriches your life with unique finds and new connections.
Living and Consuming Mindfully
How often do you tell yourself, ‘I work so hard, I deserve to treat myself’?
This mindset can lead to shopping sprees where items, initially thought to bring happiness, end up barely used or forgotten — some still with tags attached.
The best way to truly care for ourselves is to prioritize genuine happiness. Loving the Earth means loving ourselves, as we are part of nature.
Overconsumption depletes natural resources and creates pollution, which harms the planet and eventually affects us too.
By living and consuming mindfully, we focus on experiences and connections rather than material possessions. This shift not only enriches our lives but also contributes to a healthier planet.
Here are some reflective questions to guide mindful consumption:
- Do I really need this item, or is it just a fleeting desire?
- How will this purchase contribute to my overall well-being or happiness?
- Can I borrow, rent, or buy secondhand instead of purchasing new?
- How will this item impact the environment? What are its lifecycle implications?
- Will I use this item frequently, or is it something I might only use once or twice?
- How does this purchase fit within my budget and financial goals?
- Am I buying this to impress others or to satisfy a genuine need?
- Can I make do with what I already have or find a creative alternative?
- Will this item add meaningful value to my life, or will it contribute to clutter?
Practice gratitude for what you have, and make conscious choices about what you bring into your life. Embrace simplicity and find joy in sustainable living.
In summary, these actionable tips—distinguishing between needs and wants, prioritizing quality, and opting for borrowing, sharing, or secondhand items—can help you curb unnecessary purchases.
By focusing on what truly adds value and joy to your life, you reduce clutter, minimize environmental impact, and embrace a more eco-friendly lifestyle.
These practices also reflect our care for the planet and future generations, as we are all part of nature. Start today to experience the benefits of a simpler, eco-friendly way of living!